Tori married Mark Hawley, a sound engineer in 1998. She has a daughter with her husband. She had her first crush, when she was in high school. She wrote a song about it, but the guy said that he would beat her if she sings it. Yet, she sang the song. He did not beat her, but stopped talking to her. She had her next boyfriend, when she was 19 years. He was eight years older than him. She had never mentioned any details about him, including his name. She said that she did not known whether it was love or crush. In 1987, she met Eric Rosse, with whom she had an affair for seven and a half years.

She met Mark Hawley in 1994. She ended her relationship with Eric, in the same year. There are no definite evidences to prove that she was having a relationship with Mark during 1994 and whether it was the reason for breaking up with Eric. She became pregnant with Mark’s child, even before her marriage. In 1996, she had a miscarriage. She said that she became very close to Mark only after the miscarriage. In 1997, she again had a miscarriage when she was pregnant with Mark’s child, again.

She was never rumored to have had any extramarital relationship, when she was married. She was also not known to have cheated on Mark. Mark is also never rumored to have had any secret girlfriend or to have cheated on his wife. Mark’s previous romantic relationships are not known to the public. Sources near to them have not stated about any long term arguments, violence or other marital problems between them, till date. There are no rumors about divorce or separation. With no rumors about marital problems, one can be sure that there will be no news about any separation or other problems, in the near future.

The reason for her breakup with Eric is not known to the public. She never talked about her relationship with Eric, the breakup, the wedding and her current marital life. Mark is also inert to the media and is never available for any comment on the rumors or stories. Most of her songs are related to cheating and she never commented whether Mark is cheating on her or whether adultery was the reason behind the separation from Eric.

There are no pictures in which Tori is seen with any other guy who can be rumored to be her secret lover. The same goes with Mark too. Tori was said to be sexually assaulted and it was right before she got separated from Eric. There are no evidences to prove that Eric was connected to that incident and also there are no evidences to prove that it was Eric who initiated the separation. Eric has never talked about his relationship with Tori, during and after the relationship with her and thus, no definite information is available in this case.